Someone e-mailed the Tripod Women's Zone
the other day, asking me what I thought
about legalizing of prostitution. It's not fair, he wrote, that these
women don't keep all the money they make. Now, I'm all for legalizing a
career where men will never be as successful as women. But my knowledge of
prostitution is limited, so I thought I'd do a little more reading.
A recent Women's Wire article on working girls suggests
that the pimps, not the clients, are the biggest of the girls' problems. The prostitutes interviewed for the story all use condoms with clients but never with their "managers." Reason and fear of AIDS permeate their work, but the pimp is sacred.
These women were being interviewed because they were forced to it was part of an "alternative punishment." Which reminded me of the latest craze in Kansas City: John TV. Every Wednesday, the city government broadcasts photos of men (and a few women) "arrested for offenses relating to prostitution." A disclaimer above each photo notes that "this person is innocent until found guilty by a court." One photograph was of a Kansas City Fire Department captain.
Outside of Kansas City, people tend to step a little more lightly around
the subject of prostitution. So much so that "sex workers" is the term
you'll often find in newspapers these days, replacing "prostitutes." Is
this progress or just a euphemism? One writer
claims the latter, but he's just a middle-aged man named John who's
tired of his name being used to describe sex workers' clients.
Far more interesting than linguistics and kinky firemen however, are the
personal stories I found on the Web like the retired dominatrix who
misses the leather, the late mornings, and the control; and the former
stripper who's having her breasts reduced so she can study biology at
NYU. You might not find policy here, but you will at least find women who
know what they're talking about.
Emma Taylor is the editor of Tripod's Women's Zone. Her e-mail is [email protected].