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| My husband wants to adopt my son. My son has no relationship with his biological father, but he does see his paternal grandmother about twice a year. I want him to cut all ties with those people. My son is only 5. Am I doing the right thing?
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If your son has no relationship with his biological father, and he does not insist that he see his paternal grandmother, then I think the answer would be very clear. You wouldn't have to cut them off. Your son will help in his own way. I think you should see what time has to say about that, and try to be right by your son and what his desires will be. Your son is in his own body. Don't worry about you doing the right thing. See to it that he's doing the right thing to satisfy himself.
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My girl is thinking of moving in with me, and I am mostly pleased about this, but I can't help having doubts. Please tell me if you think these doubts will disappear, and whether I should tell her about them. They are doubts such as "Oh no! this means I can't shag anyone else anymore!!" I am 26. |
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If you cannot be faithful to her and love her with marriage in mind, then there's no use her moving in with you. If you're young, which you are at 26, I think you can "shag" anyone else all you want until you're ready to settle down. You're only young one time.
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